Don't Let Your Self-Worth Be Determined By Others
What do deeply fulfilled people have in common?
They feel good in their own skin, they have accepted themselves completely with their gifts and their flaws. They do NOT let depend their sense of self-worth on what other people say.
That makes them powerful since they do not give the power over their sense of wellbeing to others, they do not let their sense of self-worth be determined by others.
They do not allow the negative voices of others, the negative voice in their head pull themselves down.
They do not let some bad choices, failures or mistakes determine their life. They learn from it and move on.
That self-confidence comes from within, from a deep realization that you are enough, you are worthy, you are complete. And when it comes from within, it can not be taken away from you. It frees up your soul and spirit to grow and expand without the confines by the world.
My reminder for today is to never let bad results whether in school or your career, a mistake at work, the toxic behaviour of someone in your surroundings control you, don't stay stuck there. What you perceive now as bad times, can carry the greatest gifts of growth.
So ask yourself: where is your self-worth built on? On what other people might think of you, what they might say about you? Or is it built on the realisation that you are worthy for being born as a human, just like everybody else, and that you have everything within you to make this lifetime an incredible journey of expansion and joy.
Be kind with yourself. All is well. Life is a precious gift to be experienced, mistakes and failure are part of that. Don't compare your journey with others, we are all unique and born to blossom in our unique way.
Wishing you an amazing day where you realize how awesome you are without moulding your behaviour to get constant validation for this fact! Go through life with this deep sense of self-worth, lead by example as a kind, compassionate, beneficial presence for all who you encounter.
Much love, Barbara
